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It's Kinda Hard to Admit, Isn't it?
When You've Accomplished So Much, Checked Off So Many Boxes, and Have It So Good Compared to So Many Other People, it Can Be Hard to Admit that You're Not Actually Happy with Your Life....
Maybe it's crystal clear to you (and everyone around you!) that you're not happy with things right now...
Maybe you find yourself reacting a little (or a lot) more than it seems like you should be...
Maybe you find yourself numbing out instead of tuning in at the beginning and end of every day...
Maybe you spend more time putting out fires than doing ANYTHING you remotely enjoy...
Or, maybe you're actively TRYING to create a change in some manner, but you feel stuck in a conversation that keeps going 'round in circles (whether that's in your own head or with someone close to you)...
But more than likely, it might just be a quiet, nagging feeling inside you... a sense of numbness, or loneliness, or discontent... a sense of feeling unfulfilled...
Maybe it shows up as curiosity or daydreaming about a different life or a different lifestyle... some nostalgia for another time, another place, another person...or even just another version of yourself...
It can feel like you're going through the motions of your life, spending time with your family and friends but not feeling genuinely connected to anybody... or bringing in the money but without that spark of passion you started with...
It can feel scary, disappointing and even embarassing to be unhappy with a life that everyone else (especially the people you love!) think you "should" be content with...
And in some ways, when it's just one or two aspects of your life that aren't working for you, it can be even harder to ask for change because it's not "that bad"...
But even if you truly DO feel grateful for all that you have and all that you've created...
It DOESN'T mean you don't have the right to want more or to want different...
You absolutely do!
And I believe you can find it...
I Promise There's Hope...
There's Nothing Wrong with the Way You Feel and You CERTAINLY Don't Have to Feel Guilty for "Not Appreciating" What You Have...
It simply means it's time to realign your business, your priorities, your time and energy with who you are TODAY and what it is you most need and desire NOW...
(I'm speaking from experience of course!)
It's probably time for you to shed the outdated ways of being (and doing) that aren't serving you anymore and take off the masks you've been wearing, pretending to be or feel different than you actually do...
No matter what you accomplish, you'll never feel satisfied if you aren't being true to yourself.
This is Something I've Thought a Loooot About...
I've lived through this myself (more on that below) and I've helped so many other people navigate through the complex terrain of figuring out how to be true to themselves in the face of everyday life.
There are rarely easy answers and there's often a cost to pay no matter what. But in the long run, the cost of being true to yourself is almost always easier to bear, than that of continuing to be inauthentic.
Wanna Hear About the Tragic Paradox of Being Inauthentic?
Check out this video...
So, The Problem Isn't That You Want More or Different, It's That You Weren't EXPECTING to Feel That Way and You Don't (Yet) Know What to Do About It...
If you're a creative, driven, self-growth-oriented entrepreneurial spirit like me and my clients, it's practically INEVITABLE that you will ALWAYS want something MORE or something DIFFERENT...
If you're one of us who's free spirit at heart with a mind like a data-loving scientist or engineer, it's especially going to be a lifelong process of recalibrating your life and your business to align with who you are and what you want TODAY as you lean a bit too far in either direction.
And... if you're also an emotionally-intelligent, deeply caring, passionately-loving and sensuality-seeking human being like me, you and your partner may eventually need to accept (and, ideally, embrace) the fact that a monogamous relationship is most likely NOT going to give you everything you need for the rest of your life (in fact, statistically, it's highly improbable!)
Once you accept that you're not wrong for feeling how you feel, and you start to HONOR those feelings by being more authentic and making practical changes in your life that FEEL GOOD to you, you can start to find your way through and out of the discontent you're currently experiencing...
And I can guarantee that, as you start allowing yourself to seek and embrace the things that bring you a sense of joy (or even just a sense of relief)... your life force will start to return... the numbness will fade away as you feel the stirrings of aliveness and excitement for an even BETTER version of the (admittedly pretty amazing) life you've already created.
Who am I and how do I have such confidence about this?
I'm Wendy...
I help 6- and 7-figure entrepreneurs figure out PRACTICAL next steps to leverage what they've already created so they can align their time, energy and priorities with their values and divine purpose to bring them a DEEP sense of satisfaction and a real sense of aliveness—season after season, year after year...
Eleven Years Ago I Wrote an Amazon #1 Bestseller...
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Now, I'm About to Do it Again...
Each of my Books is the Culmination of 7 Years of Living My Life Oriented Around Mastering One of the Most Powerful and Popular (Positive) Trends of the Decade...
First, it was Pickleball... Now, it's Polyamory...
Each of them will fast-track your progress in that domain, saving you hours (if not months or years of struggle). Whether it's pickleball or relationships, I will give you a faaar better understanding of the context, nuances and strategies you need in order to ACTUALLY make progress toward your goals.
I'm known for writing practical, helpful page turners that will give you the smartest, most effective, and efficient approaches while making you laugh out loud or (sometimes) bringing tears to your eyes.
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"When I started coaching with Wendy, I didn’t know exactly what I was signing up for; I just had a super strong hunch that I had to get in ASAP. My gut was screaming at me to sign up fast... Wendy embodies values I care about, and we can talk about business, life, and everything in between. I can relax a little bit because I trust that she’s a truly helpful force in my corner. Just like elite athletes have coaches to support the mental and emotional game, entrepreneurs need that too. I’m really glad I brought Wendy into my business world."
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I'd Love for Us to Get to Know Each Other Better...
Will You Take the Next Step?
The best way to get to know me—FAST—is to binge-watch my Youtube channel or my private podcast.
The "me" that you meet in video or audio is almost exactly how I am in person.
That's why, I've found that if you really resonate with what I put out into the world, there's a veeeerrrry high likelihood that I'll adore you, too. 🤗 😍
Given that you've read this far, I'm gonna bet that as you watch or listen, it won't take you long to be 100% confident that you want more of me in your life (and, probably, that you want it to happen sooner than later)... 😝
(I mean, maybe not... 🤷🏻♀️ Maybe I won't be your jam...Or maybe now's just not our time, that's cool too...
And, BTW, I will NEVER have an AI twin, so rest assured that any video you see of me is actually OF me...)
You'll Know When You're Ready to Be My Newest Client-Friend...and We'll Probably Feel Like Besties from Day One...
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"After our weekend retreat, I felt like I wasn’t alone anymore, I had a true partner in my mission to change the world. Six months later, my finances, my clients, and my confidence are all in a dramatically better place, thanks to the clarity Wendy helped me find. Her support goes beyond strategy. She helps me manage stress, prioritize my time, and stay focused. The quarterly retreats give me the space I need to work ON my business, not just in it. I’m really excited for where we are now and where we’re going."
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What It's Like to Work With Me...
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My Story
After a decade of trial-and-near-failure as an entrepreneur, I finally built a thriving 6-figure business with my wonderful husband around our strengths and passions.
We had two beautiful kids, co-authored an Amazon.com #1 best-selling book, were doing $20k webinars and had a team of people working for us in the business and around the house to make life easier.
Only, it turns out...
Revenue, acclaim, hired help, and even having a thriving business doing work you love are NOT necessarily keys to happiness and well-being, especially not in the long term.
I remember lying in our gorgeous condo in Hawaii feeling exhausted and depleted.
It was when I was on the boat heading out to swim with wild dolphins (a lifelong dream), that I noticed myself feeling kind of numb inside. That was the moment I realized: "Something is wrong with me, I should be WAY more excited about this than I am..."
I didn't know it then, but my health, my relationship and most important of all, my connection to myself, were all in critical condition.
It took some brave, vulnerable, scary, (expensive!) and hard decisions...
But slowly, one day at a time, one decision at a time, I managed to steer the oceanliner of my life in a different direction.
👉🏼 I came out as polyamorous (& broke up my marriage over it)
👉🏼 Discovered I am queer
👉🏼 Started questioning my gender identity and settled at "gender fluid" (but you can use she/her pronouns, at least 'til we get to know eachother better!)
👉🏼 Found & began to explore my kinky/domme/sub sides
👉🏼 Got diagnosed with ADHD...
👉🏼 Had enough drama and challenges in my polyamorous relationships that I finally figured out the secrets to having a happy, HEALTHY, low-drama polycule!
And that's all just in the past 5 years!
Now, I am at a place where I feel more connected to my aliveness, happier, healthier and less stressed than ever before.
I am more committed than ever to trusting and following my aliveness.
To engaging with the people I want to engage with, in the ways that we want to engage. I have incredible close, intimate, committed and loving, growth-oriented relationships where I never have to compromise on what's true for me in order to maintain the relationship.
My business is founded on sustainable growth that doesn't compromise my health or well-being.
Now I bring my sharp business mind, my compassionate heart and my emotional intelligence to help high 6- and 7-figure entrepreneurs follow divine guidance, trust their sense of aliveness, and find practical strategies to align the time and energy they invest everyday with the priorities and values they hold closest to their heart.
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I'll be in touch as often as feels right to give you a glimpse into the trials and celebrations of my life, share some cute kid (or puppy) pics and behind-the-scenes photos, and tell you what I'm creating in the world.
When I'm up to something exciting online, I might write every day. When I'm offline being with the peeps I love and livin' life, it might be every few weeks.
Either way, I hope you'll write back and let me know what's going on in your world, too. (But only if you wanna...)
Big Hugs,
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