You’ve ruminated on it.
You've talked to your best friend and your therapist about it.
You keep journaling the same basic ideas over and over.
Maybe you've even made a spreadsheet to try to figure it out (because of course you did--I would, too!)
But somehow, you’re still stuck.
The relationship still hurts more than you think it should.
The business decision still won’t become clear.
You know what you’re “supposed” to do, but you can’t make yourself do it.
It’s become clear to you that SOMETHING is feeling like too much or not enough, but you’re not sure exactly how you feel, why you feel that and/or what TF to do about it…
Or you can't figure out why still feel restless, flat, irritated, or weirdly disconnected from your own life when you final have what you thought you wanted but it isn't making you feel the way you thought it would.
All of those feelings are a sign that there’s one part of the situation you haven’t accounted for yet.
A feeling you're afraid to feel.
A fear you're afraid to face.
A desire you don’t want to want.
A loyalty you didn’t realize was influencing you.
An unrecognized assumption locking the whole problem in place.
That’s what we find in a Make It Make Sense™ session.
You bring me what’s on your heart and mind.
I listen for what isn’t being said, ask the questions, follow the thread of your feelings and help you uncover the hidden variable that’s making the rest of the situation impossible to solve.
Once that piece is visible, the next step is almost always 100x easier and blatantly obvious.