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WHAT IT'S LIKE TO WORK WITH ME

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“I came in thinking I was an impossible case.

Trauma-riddled, poly-resistant, and constantly on edge in my relationship.

Wendy helped me not only survive, but completely rewire how I show up with my partner. I’ve gone from feeling devastated, dysregulated, and betrayed... to clear, calm, and in command of my own boundaries and needs.

For the first time, I can engage with my partner with love and self-trust.

If you’re willing to do your inner work, she will walk with you every step — even if it feels impossible now.”

— A. McRae

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"Wendy is the most brilliant coach I could ever imagine having. She has gone to the depths of my being (it’s deep in there) and gently coaxed out more of who I am at my essence... I will do a stand-up testimonial for her anywhere, anytime."

— Beth A.

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"Through this work with Wendy, I’m learning to rein in my emotional investment, meet people where they're at, and let things play out without rushing or forcing clarity…

That shift has changed everything for me."

— Jaclyn Z.

HOW I HELP

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“I came in thinking I was an impossible case.

Trauma-riddled, poly-resistant, and constantly on edge in my relationship.

Wendy helped me not only survive, but completely rewire how I show up with my partner. I’ve gone from feeling devastated, dysregulated, and betrayed... to clear, calm, and in command of my own boundaries and needs.

For the first time, I can engage with my partner with love and self-trust.

If you’re willing to do your inner work, she will walk with you every step — even if it feels impossible now.”

-- A. McRae

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"Wendy is the most brilliant coach I could ever imagine having. She has gone to the depths of my being (it’s deep in there) and gently coaxed out more of who I am at my essence... I will do a stand-up testimonial for her anywhere, anytime."

-- Beth A.

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"Through this work with Wendy, I’m learning to rein in my emotional investment, meet people where they're at, and let things play out without rushing or forcing clarity…That shift has changed everything for me."

-- Jaclyn Z.

NOW THAT WE'VE ESTABLISHED I KNOW MY SH*T

IT'S TIME TO GO DEEPER

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Does this sound familiar...?

Things are getting hot and heavy and everything in your body is saying yes to what's next, but you pull back, take a breath, and say, "Uuugh! I want to! ...But I think I better hold off until I have a chance to talk to my partner about it first..."

This doesn't seem like a bad thing...It seems thoughtful, considerate and reasonable, right?

For the same reasons it makes perfect sense that you're upset when your partner comes home and tells you they genuinely accidentally went a little further than your current agreements allow...

People like us value trust. Safety. Honesty. Closeness. Connection.

And everything you've ever read about polyamory has pointed you in the direction of clear agreements like these. And it makes sense because you like the idea of having the clarity and security of knowing that you'll have time to adjust to what your partner wants to do and vice versa, right?

Only, you haven't actually experienced the sense of freedom that you were hoping to feel when you decided to open up the relationship.

Because, let's face it, this whole polyamory thing has turned out to be surprisingly more complex than you expected, right?

It seems like you spend five (or more!) hours processing about something that wouldn't even take more than an hour to do.

You probably don't really think of it as "settling" or "compromising on what you want," because you want to support them and you're pretty sure that if you give them some more time they'll come around to feeling differently...

And then (hopefully!) you can do what you want WITHOUT negatively impacting them or the relationship.

And you genuinely WANT to do that for them because you'd hope they do the same for you, right?

Lemme guess...

YOU KNEW YOU WANTED YOUR FREEDOM, BUT YOU DIDN'T EXPECT TO HAVE SUCH A HARD TIME WHEN THEY EXERCISED THEIRS...

You're not bad or wrong or hopeless because it's triggering you more deeply than you expected with the pangs of jealousy and gut-wrenching visions in your head of your partner being with other people.

It's fairly normal...

Do you ever feel guilty for being out on a date and genuinely enjoying yourself while your partner is home, anxious, lonely, maybe even having a panic attack?

But then when you're the one at home while they're out, it's not much easier for you either...

Maybe you talk about being "solo poly" like it's a threat, as a desperate plea for your partner to slow down, or speed up, or whatever it is that would need to happen for you two to be on the same page...

I know that's how it was for me, anyway.

On the bad days, I was sobbing and my partner was yelling.

On the awkward days, we cuddled up in the hammock, feeling kind of disconnected because we were both lost in our dream-sequence playbacks of the night before we'd each spent with other people, but afraid to tell each other too much or say the wrong thing.

On the good days, we'd make it through a difficult conversation, feeling closer for having understood each other better and thinking we were on the same page again. Until...inevitably...Not too many days or weeks later, one of us would want to do more than what the other was comfortable with and we'd be back in the same pattern of upset all over again...

Sound familiar?

And I'm sure you expected better for yourself, I sure did...

And it's kind of crazy-making!

SAY NO MORE, I'M IN!
I want off the not-so-merry-go-round ASAP

BECAUSE IF NOT YOU: THEN WHO? AND IF NOT NOW: THEN WHEN?

I mean, you're smart, emotionally-intelligent, an excellent communicator, and you help your clients create amazing breakthroughs in every session.

You're fiercely dedicated to your own personal growth and you want to do the healing it requires...

If anyone SHOULD be able to do it, it's you, right?

But you're beginning to wonder if you're ever going to actually make progress or if it's really just an exercise in futility and that maybe one (or both!) of you isn't cut out for it.

And if you're really honest with yourself, you might admit that part of the urgency is that, if they don't get on board soon with what you wanna do, you're gonna start feeling pretty resentful, if you don't already. And that's not the energy you want to live with.

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Yes, I want more pleasure with less processing--Duh!

YOU THINK THAT WHAT YOUR DOING IS HELPFUL, BUT IT'S ACTUALLY MAKING THINGS WORSE:

I PROMISE, CLEARER AGREEMENTS & GIVING IT MORE TIME ARE NOT THE PATH TO SEXUAL SOVEREIGNTY WITH EMOTIONAL INTIMACY

(I know, it surprised me, too...)

What you really want is to create beautiful, deep, heart-connected connections with people, where you can explore romance if it feels right and move at the pace that feels right for you, right?

You trust your body and your gut when it comes to your business, but it feels like the compass gets a bit wonky when it comes to your personal relationships.

You wish that it would be simpler, that you could just do what felt right to you in the moment in your other relationships, but you are deeply in love with your partner and really don't want to hurt them or create more upset between you...

The problem is, it doesn't really work that way...

Unfortunately, many of the things you are doing in an attempt to avoid hurting your partner or negatively really just kicking the can down the road—and making it worse!

(The can gets beat up the farther down the road it gets kicked, right? And progressively less usable to hold liquids?)

Or another way to look at it is this:

It's a lot like someone buying something they can't afford on credit and thinking that it solved their cashflow problem.

It makes it look like things are okay in the moment, and it actually does relieve the pressure of not having the thing they need in the moment...but when that bill comes due, they end up in a worse situation, paying an even higher price, right?

You're too experienced to naively do that when it comes purchases, but when it comes to polyamory, the reality is, you're a bit like that 19 year old in college using the credit card to pay their bills. They think they're being responsible by paying their bills, but they're missing some key information and not looking at the big picture.

The same thing is happening for you in your relationships.

You think you're being kind and loving and building a safe foundation, but you don't even know there IS an "interest rate" let alone how much it is or how to avoid it.

You think that the agreements you're making and the ways you're slowing down for your partner are you "being responsible" but what if it's you silently racking up debt?

Hint: It is.

And you're not alone in being confused about it.

When you watch Zero-Drama Poly™ you'll hear me talk about how I got off the exhausting teeter-totter of polyamory—where every step toward your truth is followed by a step back into someone else’s comfort, and how you can too.

In this training I'll help you recognize and identify the exact patterns that are keeping you and your partner cycling between feeling upset that you seem to be at an impasse and being afraid to lose each other.

This is how you unlearn the invisible patterns that keep you saying "okay" when because you're afraid to say no, telling yourself "later" when you really want it now, and constantly wondering if whatever you want to do is "worth" the conversations or upset you'll be having afterwards.

ABOUT THIS ADVANCED TRAINING

Zero Drama Poly™ is a direct, honest, and game-changing 2-hour training with me, Wendy Garrido, America’s premier personal & sexual sovereignty coach for emotionally-intelligent, visionary coaches & entrepreneurs.

Most advice about polyamory or open relationships is pretty basic if you already have the high level personal-growth and communication skills that we do.

This is different.

It's advanced polyamory strategy for highly emotionally-intelligent, successful, self-growth oriented entrepreneurs like you.

Inside, you’ll learn:

  • Why More Repair Conversations Aren't Going to Create the Relationship You Want—No Matter How Empathetic You Are or How Much Your Partner Wants to Change (and What Actually Will Move the Dial)

    (Neither of Us Wants You to Waste Another Day, Shed Another Dozen Tears, or Feel Heartbroken One More Time in This Fruitless Cycle Because it Feels SO. MUCH. BETTER. on the Other Side When You Can Be True to Yourself in Every Moment AND Have Still Have Your Deep, Intimate Relationships!)S

  • The Real Reason Your Agreements Will Never Stand the Test of Time (It’s Not What You Think) & a Better Way to Think About Them

    (So That You Can Focus on Doing What Actually WILL Help You Feel Safer As Your Partner Dates Other People and Will Help You Become Someone Your Partner Can Rely On, So They Don't Have to Rely on Agreements.

  • The 12 Hidden Patterns That DIRECTLY Create Poly Drama (Even In Conscious Relationships Between Two Savvy, Self-Growth Oriented People)

  • The Unique Way I Define Boundaries that Eliminates 100%% of the Uncertainty You're Having About How to Follow Through on Them (HINT: It's Impossible for Anyone Else to Cross the L.A.S.E.R.-Focused Boundaries I Teach)

  • The Crucial Way that Requests Differ from Boundaries and EXACTLY How Many Times is Too Many Times to Make a Request, so That You're Crystal Clear on Whether It's Time to Remind Them Again or Take Action

  • How to Stop Feeling Guilty About Going After What Feels Right to You and Stop Waiting for Someone Else's Approval

  • Why Self-Centered Polyamory™ isn't Selfish at All, How It's the Foundation of Happy, Lasting, Connected Open Relationships, and How to Implement so You Finally Feel like You're Fully Embodying Your Personal & Sexual Sovereignty

You’ll walk away with tools, language, and clarity you can use immediately.elor sit amet

Because Endless Emotional Processing or Losing Love Shouldn't Be the Price You Pay for Being True to Yourself

✨ Who It’s For

I created this training for you if:

  • You’re polyamorous or seriously considering polyamory and aren't sure how to exercise your personal sovereignty without breaking trust in your current relationships

  • You’re the “emotionally intelligent one” who still ends up in messy dynamics and isn't quite sure what you're missing

  • Even though you deeply love and are committed to your current partner/s, you’re tired of holding back and compromising on what feels good and right to you while you waaaaaaait for them to feel better about it. (And you can feel the pressure building, that either you need to start following your aliveness or you're gonna lose yourself.)

  • You want less chaos—and more freedom, without sacrificing physical or emotional intimacy

  • You’re craving tools that are direct, nuanced, and speak to you as the wise, powerful, coach that you are, showing you where your blind spots are, calling you out when you're lying to yourself, and inviting you to trust your body and dig deeper into what you actually desire--and why you're telling yourself you can't have it.

✅ Who It's For

This is for you if:

  • You're polyamorous or poly-leaning, and you want more freedom without losing closeness

  • You're the partner who feels like you're "too much" or "not enough"

  • You're tired of explaining yourself or asking for permission to be you

  • You know there has to be a way to do this that feels clean, clarifying, and aligned

And especially if you:

  • Have strong emotional intelligence and deep relationships, but still find yourself stuck in drama or heartbreak loops

  • Want practical, embodied tools that lead in the direction of sovereignty—not just another long conversation that leaves you in the same place.

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"Wendy is the most brilliant coach I could ever imagine having. She has gone to the depths of my being (it’s deep in there) and gently coaxed out more of who I am at my essence... I will do a stand-up testimonial for her anywhere, anytime."

Beth Amine

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✅ What You'll Walk Away With

  • A clear understanding of what’s actually creating drama in your relationships

  • Language that lets you express your truth without backtracking or apologizing

  • How to Create L.A.S.E.R. Focused Requests & Boundaries that honor your aliveness--not just protect your pain

  • A new relationship with conflict, clarity, and your own power

  • A reminder that your desire isn’t too much—it’s data

Why I Created This

Hi, I’m Wendy Garrido.

I’ve spent the last 10 years navigating every corner of polyamory—from my devastating divorce to deeply celebratory partnerships. I’ve lived through the drama, the heartbreak, the "feeling-tolerated-but-not-celebrated", and the endless emotional marathons.

And it took a while, but I figured out a way out.

Now I have many, deeply connected, emotionally honest, physically intimate relationships—without drama and without processing.

This training distills the most hard-earned, transformational clarity I've gained so you don't have to spend 10 years (or 10 breakdowns) figuring it out.

CONTACT

Mailing Address: PO Box 2617

Nevada City, CA 95959

Email: wendy@wendygarrido.com

Phone: 773.615.1382