The Polyamory Roadmap™
The 12 "Rules of the Road" (Nobody Knew to Teach You) for Emotionally Intelligent People Who Keep Ending Up Heartbroken, Feel Exhausted by Processing, and Are Desperate for a Better Way to Be in Relationship with the People You Love
Let' s Start with a Heart to Heart
(~17 min but the last ~6 min is my backstory and 100% optional)
Rule 1: Stop Processing Together
(~3 min)
Rule 2: Say the Hard Thing Kindly Now
(~2.5 min)
Rule 3: Take Frequent P.P. Breaks
(~1 min)
Rule 4: Stop Making Agreements
(~6 min)
Rule 5: Redefine Love
(~1.5 min)
Rule 6: Let Go But Don't Give Up
(~2 min)
Rule 7: Right-Size Your Relationships
(~1 min)
Rule 8: Unravel Your Invisible Codependence™
(~5 min)
Rule 9: Move at the Pace of Your Nervous System
(~2 min)
Rule 10: Avoid Excess Emotional Exposure
(~3.5 min)
Rule 11: Choose Intentional Vulnerability
(~6 min)
Rule 12: Distinguish Requests From Boundaries
(~8 min)
What's Next?
(~10 min)
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"My conversations with Wendy have really sparked something in me. The values and perspectives she's shared have become some of my core values.
If you have the chance to work with her, just do it! There's no one else who has her wisdom, experience and intuition."
-- Tasia C.
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“I came in thinking I was an impossible case.
Trauma-riddled, poly-resistant, and constantly on edge in my relationship.
Wendy helped me not only survive, but completely rewire how I show up with my partner. I’ve gone from feeling devastated, dysregulated, and betrayed... to clear, calm, and in command of my own boundaries and needs.
For the first time, I can engage with my partner with love and self-trust.
If you’re willing to do your inner work, she will walk with you every step — even if it feels impossible now.”
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-- Beth A.
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"Through this work with Wendy, I’m learning to rein in my emotional investment, meet people where they're at, and let things play out without rushing or forcing clarity…That shift has changed everything for me."
-- Jaclyn Z.
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"Wendy really gets it. What she brings to the table is an emotional depth and presence that is hard to come by in any field, but her wisdom and experience both as a business coach and a human navigating conscious intimate relationships is unparalleled. "
-- Mukti Mia Jarvis
Experiential Attachment-Oriented Relationship Therapist
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