Private support for the breakup that is asking you to understand yourself on a deeper level

The Breakthrough Breakup

A 2-hour private heart-to-heart with me, plus 5 full async coaching days to help you move through the heartbreak, make sense of the pattern, and come back to yourself with more clarity, peace, confidence, and self-trust.

Yes, I want private support.
This is for the breakup that feels like more than a breakup

The one that has you rereading old messages, replaying conversations, and wondering how something that once felt so meaningful could leave you feeling this undone.

The one that brings up every old ache around being chosen, being safe, being wanted, being too much, not being enough, and trying to love someone into meeting you.

The one that has your mind trying to understand, while your body is still bracing for the next emotional wave.

The private next step

Make this the breakup that changes the pattern.

Private, high-touch support for the moment when generic advice is not enough.

Regular value $14,997
Introductory offer $4,997
Yes, I want private support.
This is where private support changes the work

Maybe a part of you knows this ending is necessary. Maybe a part of you still hopes something will change. Maybe you feel clear for a few hours, and then one memory, one song, one text, one dream pulls you right back into the ache.

Because your breakup has details. The moment you felt yourself collapse. The conversation you keep analyzing. The boundary you wish you had held.

The part of you that kept hoping, explaining, waiting, softening, shrinking, over-functioning, or trying to be easier to love. The place where you still wonder if you asked for too much, tolerated too little, or somehow missed the sign that would have changed everything.

You do not have to sort through all of that alone.

Help me find the breakthrough in this breakup.
Inside The Breakthrough Breakup

We sit with your actual story.

We slow it down. We look at what happened, what it activated, what it revealed, and what your heart has been trying to tell you underneath the grief.

Not so you can blame yourself. So you can tell the truth without turning it into another wound.

Wendy sitting warmly in her living room
What if this is the breakup

That finally shows you the pattern clearly enough to change it?

Heartbreak has a way of making everything feel urgent. You want answers. You want relief. You want to stop spiraling.

You want to know whether to reach out, let go, wait, forgive, block, explain, repair, surrender, or finally choose yourself without needing the other person to understand why.

And underneath all of that, there is usually a deeper question.

  • Why did this hit me so hard?
  • Why did I stay hopeful for so long?
  • Why did I abandon myself in moments where I knew something was wrong?
  • Why does this feel like it is touching pain that existed long before this person?
  • Why do I know better and still feel pulled back in?
The layer we work with

Not just the facts of the breakup. The emotional architecture underneath it.

The attachment patterns. The nervous system responses. The places where love started to feel like proving, waiting, earning, decoding, managing, or bracing. The places where your body knew the truth before your mind was ready to admit it.

This is not about becoming guarded or cold. It is about becoming clearer.

  • Clear enough to stop confusing intensity with intimacy.
  • Clear enough to stop negotiating with your own needs.
  • Clear enough to recognize when love is asking you to disappear.
  • Clear enough to trust yourself again.
Help me understand what this breakup is really showing me.
Wendy looking directly at the camera
Introducing

The Breakthrough Breakup

The Breakthrough Breakup is a private, high-touch support experience for the person who knows this heartbreak is asking for more than distraction, journaling prompts, or another late-night conversation with a friend who already hates them.

This is for the person who wants to understand what happened inside of them. Why this person. Why this dynamic. Why this ending. Why this ache. Why this version of love felt so hard to release, even when it hurt.

I am ready for private support.
In our private work together

We sit with the specifics of your relationship and breakup.

We will look at what you are feeling now, what you are needing, what you are wanting, where your clarity is missing, and what this relationship may be revealing about the way you love, attach, protect, hope, forgive, and lose yourself.

The goal is not to rush you into being “over it.” The goal is to help you stop bleeding out inside the story.

To help you gather the pieces of yourself that got left inside the relationship. To help you see the difference between love, longing, grief, chemistry, fantasy, and the nervous system pull of unfinished pain.

To help you leave this experience with more self-trust than you had when you entered it.

What we will work through together

We will look at the moments that mattered, even if they seemed small when they happened.

  • Where you may have placed yourself in a precarious emotional position without realizing it at the time.
  • What was yours to own, repair, or learn from.
  • What was never your responsibility, no matter how badly your nervous system wants to solve it.
  • What you were trying to receive from this person, this relationship, or this dynamic.
  • What your heart was asking for underneath the grief.
  • The places where you were overextending, over-explaining, over-hoping, or abandoning your own knowing.
  • The part of you that still loves them, without letting that part make all of your decisions.
  • What needs to change so this pattern does not repeat itself in a new relationship, with a new face, under a slightly different storyline.

This is tender work. It is also honest work.

Because sometimes the breakthrough is not that you stop loving someone overnight.

Sometimes the breakthrough is that you finally stop leaving yourself to keep reaching for them.

Here’s what is included
Wendy pointing upward

Real support for the moments when the insight needs somewhere to land.

This is not just a call you leave with a few nice ideas. This is a private container for the grief, the pattern, the nervous system pull, and the very human moments when you need someone steady enough to help you come back to yourself.

A 2-hour private heart-to-heart with me

This is the core of The Breakthrough Breakup.

We will schedule your private session as soon as possible, potentially as soon as this week.

During this 2-hour conversation, we will sit with your actual breakup story and work through what happened, what it brought up, what it activated, and what this moment is asking you to understand about yourself.

Individualized support

You will receive individualized coaching, emotional reflection, intuitive support, and clear guidance around the deeper pattern underneath the pain.

This is where we make space for the grief, the anger, the confusion, the longing, the love that is still there, and the part of you that knows this ending may be calling you into a more honest relationship with yourself.

5 full async coaching days

You will receive 5 async coaching days to use anytime over the next 3 months.

Use them when the grief spikes, when you want to send the text, when you are spiraling at 11:47pm trying to make sense of something they said, or when you feel steady and then suddenly feel like you are back at the beginning.

On those days, you can reach out from sun up to sundown, and I will be there with you inside the real-time moments where integration actually happens.

Breakup Balm + The Betrayal-Proof Heart

You will also receive registration for Breakup Balm, so you have workshop support alongside our private work.

You will receive immediate access to The Betrayal-Proof Heart training, so you can begin working with the deeper emotional patterns that may be surfacing through this breakup.

Register for The Breakthrough Breakup.
This is for you if

You want to walk away from this with more self-trust, not more armor.

  • You already know this breakup is touching something deeper than “I miss them.”
  • You keep replaying the relationship, looking for the exact moment things shifted.
  • You are tired of wondering whether you asked for too much or tolerated too little.
  • You want someone who can help you hold the emotional complexity without rushing you into a clean answer before your body is ready.
  • You want to understand your part without making everything your fault.
  • You want to stop outsourcing your peace to whether they text, explain, apologize, return, or finally understand you.
  • You want to understand why this relationship affected you so deeply.
  • You want support that can hold the heartbreak and still tell the truth.
  • You want your next chapter to be shaped by clarity, not by the fear that this will happen again.
This may not be the right fit if
  • You are looking for someone to tell you exactly what to do without being willing to look at the deeper pattern.
  • You only want to analyze the other person and have no desire to understand what the relationship brought up in you.
  • You are looking for quick distraction instead of emotional integration.
  • You are not open to honest reflection.
  • You want support that bypasses grief instead of helping you move through it with more self-respect.

The Breakthrough Breakup is for the person who is ready to be held, witnessed, and guided through the truth of what this relationship revealed.

With compassion.

With steadiness.

With enough honesty to actually change something.

Yes, I want private support.
The investment
Regular value $14,997
Introductory offer $4,997

This is private, intimate, high-touch support for a moment that deserves more than generic advice.

Because when your heart is cracked open, the right support can help you see what the pain has been trying to show you without letting it swallow you whole.

  • A 2-hour private heart-to-heart with me.
  • 5 full async coaching days to use over 3 months.
  • Breakup Balm workshop registration.
  • Immediate access to The Betrayal-Proof Heart.
  • Private support, emotional clarity, and grounded guidance through one of the most tender transitions of your life.
Yes, I want to make this breakup a breakthrough.
What clients say about working with Wendy

The people who work with me often come in feeling overwhelmed, tender, and unsure if what they want is even possible.

What they leave with is harder to explain in a single sentence. More steadiness. More self-trust. More capacity to tell the truth. More clarity about what love can ask of them, and what it never should. More confidence in their own voice, body, intuition, and heart.

Tasia C.
Tasia C.

"My conversations with Wendy have really sparked something in me. The values and perspectives she's shared have become some of my core values. If you have the chance to work with her, just do it! There's no one else who has her wisdom, experience and intuition."

A. McRae
A. McRae

"I came in thinking I was an impossible case. Trauma-riddled, poly-resistant, and constantly on edge in my relationship. Wendy helped me not only survive, but completely rewire how I show up with my partner. I've gone from feeling devastated, dysregulated, and betrayed... to clear, calm, and in command of my own boundaries and needs. For the first time, I can engage with my partner with love and self-trust."

Beth A.
Beth A.

"Wendy is the most brilliant coach I could ever imagine having. She has gone to the depths of my being and gently coaxed out more of who I am at my essence. I will do a stand-up testimonial for her anywhere, anytime."

Jaclyn Z.
Jaclyn Z.

"Through this work with Wendy, I'm learning to rein in my emotional investment, meet people where they're at, and let things play out without rushing or forcing clarity. That shift has changed everything for me."

"Wendy really gets it. What she brings to the table is an emotional depth and presence that is hard to come by in any field, but her wisdom and experience both as a business coach and a human navigating conscious intimate relationships is unparalleled."

Mukti Mia Jarvis
-- Mukti Mia Jarvis Experiential Attachment-Oriented Relationship Therapist
A note from Wendy

I know what this kind of heartbreak feels like.

The kind that makes you question your perception. The kind that makes you wonder how something that felt so meaningful could also leave you feeling so undone.

The kind that brings up every old ache around being chosen, being safe, being wanted, being too much, not being enough, and trying to love someone into meeting you.

I will not rush you past that. And I will not let you build a home inside it either.

My work is to help you stay close enough to the truth that it can change you, without letting the pain become the only voice in the room.

We will make space for the grief. We will make space for the anger. We will make space for the part of you that still loves them. We will make space for the part of you that knows this ending may be the beginning of a much deeper return to yourself.

I can be with you inside the hurt. And I can also help you come out the other side with more peace, confidence, clarity, and trust.

Wendy Garrido
Frequently asked questions

How soon can I schedule my private session?

We will schedule your private 2-hour heart-to-heart as soon as possible, potentially as soon as this week.

How do the async coaching days work?

You will receive 5 full async coaching days to use anytime over the next 3 months.

On the days you choose, you can reach out from sun up to sundown for support, reflection, coaching, and guidance as things come up in real time.

Do I have to use all 5 async days right away?

No. You have 3 months to use them, so you can save them for the moments when you need support most.

Is this only for a recent breakup?

No. This is for any breakup, ending, relationship rupture, or emotional pattern that still feels alive in your body and heart.

Sometimes the relationship ended last week. Sometimes it ended months ago. Sometimes the person is still in your life, but something inside the dynamic has already broken your heart.

If the pain is still speaking, there is something here to tend to.

What if I still love them?

Then we make space for that.

You do not have to pretend you are detached, empowered, or over it before you come into this work.

Love can still be present. Longing can still be present. Confusion can still be present. We will work with what is true, not what you think you should be feeling by now.

What if I am embarrassed by how much this affected me?

You do not have to be embarrassed here.

Some relationships touch old places in us. Some endings bring up pain that feels disproportionate until we understand what they are connected to.

This work gives us space to meet that with honesty and compassion, instead of shame.

Final invitation

This breakup does not have to become another place where you lose yourself.

It can become the moment you finally understand the pattern. The moment you stop making your needs negotiable. The moment you learn how to hold your heart without handing your power back to the person who hurt it.

The moment you begin to trust what your body knew, what your intuition whispered, and what your heart was brave enough to want.

You do not have to do that alone.

The Breakthrough Breakup is here to support you through the ache, the clarity, the grief, the truth, and the return to yourself.

Yes, I want private support.
Help me understand what this breakup is really showing me

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Complimentary access to the Breakup Balm workshop & Immediate access to The Betrayal-Proof Heart

This gives you space to tend to the ache, the grief, the tenderness, and the emotional waves while we work with the deeper relational pattern underneath it.

You’ll get immediate access to The Betrayal-Proof Heart training, so you can begin working with the deeper emotional patterns that were at the root of why this breakup has been so painful.

This is especially supportive if the ending has brought up old wounds around trust, betrayal, abandonment, guilt, shame, or wondering how to ever feel safe opening your heart again.

CONTACT

Email: wendy@wendygarrido.com

Address: PO Box 2617

Nevada City, CA 95959